What does ‘success’ mean to you?

In case you missed it, I wanted to share a video I did in the Facebook group recently on the topic of success.

How do you know if you are ‘successful’? 

Do you rely on external measures like job title, salary, what car you drive or how big your house is? Or do you look at more internal measures like feeling happier? Having more time? Feeling less stressed? Doing meaningful work? 

Sometimes without realising it, we end up chasing after someone else’s definition of success. 

Maybe it’s your parents’? Or your boss’s? Or just what wider society thinks it should be. But everyone’s version of success is unique, and competing with other people’s versions won’t get you anywhere.

The key is to figure out what you really want. 

So in the video I talk about:

  • The limiting belief that was holding me back in my business
  • Why it’s so important to know your ‘why’ 
  • How I changed my perspective on success

Click here to watch it now. If you’re not a member of the group, you’ll need to join as it is a closed group. Make sure you watch it through and share what success means to you in the comments thread. I’d love to hear!

Juliette xx

p.s I also wrote this guest post recently on how exactly to figure out the purpose behind your business and why it’s a game changer. Check it out here

Fledgling Freedom-preneur Interview: The Vegan Viking

In this blog series, I interview fledgling freedom-preneurs about their first baby steps in business. I thought it would be inspiring for you guys to hear their stories, warts and all, to help you find more clarity as you start out on your own business journey.  

So first up we have local legend, the Vegan Viking! (or Chris as he’s otherwise known), who swapped his career in sales to start a vegan food delivery service and now runs a vegan cafe:

So how long have you had your business? (*time of writing was 2016*)

Around 3 months, however I started writing my blog about 2 years ago.

Did you have any business background or experience before you started? 

I've worked in Sales, Recruitment, Fitness & Nutrition as well as Food & Beverage, so I feel I have a fairly well rounded background. 

What were the 3 most important things you invested in when you were starting out? 

1. Catering equipment. I trialled using eco friendly silicone tupperware which I then found wasn't scalable and didn't look quite right. I then chose some compostable throwaways that help with the branding and are easy for people to recycle. 

2. My electric van which is more affectionately known as the ‘Shield Maiden'. I started off using taxis and buses until I invested £2500 in her. She's pretty much free to run, given there are some electric charge points around the city that are free to use. It's value truly comes from a brand stand point though. I've already won business from people seeing it around town and it generates plenty of smiles too. 

3. Time & hard work. Without doubt this is what I perhaps underestimated the most. I spend most waking minutes thinking about new ideas/recipes/ways I can improve the service. Apart from maybe one day per week when I can truly relax, I'm sourcing new suppliers, marketing on social media or testing new recipes on my ever-supportive wife.

Is there anything that you spent time/money on, that now with hindsight, you would do differently?

With hindsight perhaps the silicone packaging I initially used. However if I hadn't used these and got feedback, I may have never ended up using the excellent eco-packages I use now. I feel, from my experience, all mistakes are just part of the learning process, and whilst not apparent at the time, help you to provide a better service and ultimately contribute to a more efficient business model. 

How did you get your first customers?

I trialled the service at my current place of work within my team and anyone else that was interested. Then started advertising in specific social media groups and dropping business cards anywhere that I came across. Also found that word of mouth is a powerful tool. Nothing beats getting out and talking to people. 

What tips do you have for starting a business whilst still in your 9 to 5?

If you are passionate about something and feel it is going to benefit the people in your community and further afield, then go for it. Prepare to have some sleepless nights and a few setbacks on the road to wherever you're going. Gather feedback on your product/service but ultimately you have to make the key decisions, have the courage in your convictions! 

*2019 update*: Chris has now swapped his food delivery service for a vegan cafe in the heart of Brighton called The Longhouse Cafe, and you can find out more about his delicious offerings here.

So do you know anyone who is in the early stages of their biz, and would like to share their story and lessons learned? Then ask them to email me at hello@thecoastalcoach.com

Is THIS what has been holding you back?

I want to set you up for success so let’s have a little look at some of the things which might have held you back this year:

Do you ever pay close attention to the tone of your thoughts?  

There’s a famous quote from Ghandi which says:

We’re often much harder on ourselves than we would be to a friend or family member, and it’s these negative thoughts that might be currently creating your reality. 

Do any of these sound familiar?

    •    I'm not clever enough.
    •    I'm too old
    •    I’m too fat
    •    I'm not confident enough.
    •    I don’t have relevant experience.
    •    I'm terrible with money
    •    Successful people are just lucky
    •    My partner wouldn’t like that
    •    My friends wouldn’t like me anymore

It’s key that you end this loop of negative thoughts, and get your thinking in line with your goals and dreams if you want to actually achieve them.

1. The first step is awareness. An exercise that I ask my clients to do is to observe their thoughts for 48 hours and write down what they notice, in a diary, journal or the notes app on their phone.  You may notice that the language is a lot harsher than you expected, but don’t worry, there is a way to start changing it.

2. Once you’re aware of the particular words and thoughts that keep coming up, flip them around. So think of the opposite, more positive version of that. For example, if you keep telling yourself “It’s too late for me, I can’t change careers now”, then the opposite might be ”It’s never too late, and I have lots of relevant life and professional experience that will be extremely valuable in my new business.”

3. Keep repeating them to yourself, and start to flood your mind with more positive thoughts. Give it a try and see how it starts to affect your outlook and how you feel about reaching your goals. 

This is going to be YOUR year!