Why you need to let go of the past

I was inspired by a friend this week.

She's having to make some tough decisions about letting go of the old to make way for the new.

But it's hard. Because the old is familiar. Even if it's not giving her what she needs, it's what she

knows.

Like an old familiar job. Or colleagues who have known you for years. Or an industry that you've always

worked in.

They might not be the right fit, but at least you know how to be in that environment.

Even if that version of you isn't who you really are, deep down.

Making space for the new, like a new role, or company, or business start up, requires a leap of faith.

Because it's unknown. Scary even.

But if it's a good match for who you really, truly are. Then you will know what to do, and how to flourish and grow.

Because you will be acting authentically. And playing to your strengths. Adn driven by a deep sense of purpose to make it a success.

That's what happens when you let go of the old, and create space for the new.

There is room for your authentic self to blossom and become something truly magnificent…

Planning a summer getaway? But what are you getting away from?

Ah it's holiday season. Something we've worked hard for and planned all year. A fabulous escape from all our everyday worries and why not?

However as we all know, those worries and stresses tend to still be there when we get back.

The dead end job, the difficult boss, the knackering commute, the nagging sense of wanting to do more with your life, if only you knew what it was?...

I know that feeling because I used to do exactly the same thing in my last corporate job. I’d try to make myself feel better by spending any spare cash on distractions like day trips or holidays, but the temporary high would never last long and I’d soon be back to square one again once I got home.

The problem was that trying to distract myself from my problems didn't work. What I needed to do was change my perspective, and for that I needed the help of a coach. Someone who could help me see things differently and see what was truly possible for me.

And once I had got clear on what I really wanted out of life, and re-built the confidence to go for it, then I didn't need to distract myself so often. Life felt full of possibilities, and whilst the road to meaningful change wasn't always easy or smooth, it was exciting to finally be on that journey!

So don't get me wrong, who doesn't love a holiday? Enjoy the sun, the cocktails and the trashy books (or is that just my idea of the perfect break?!). But just imagine if that was the cherry on the top of an already pretty great life and career back home, instead of a 'ho hum' one?

I'll speak to you soon

Juliette xx

p.s my coaching spots are filling up for the autumn (always a busy time of year for me, as summer holidays tend to give people a bit of space to reflect on what's not been working and what they really want to change). Want to be able to sink into that sun lounger knowing that you've got a life changing introductory coaching session booked in with me when you get back? Then get in touch now to learn more and grab your spot.

How Hayley made her dreams a reality (and you can too)

Have you ever had a career or personal dream that both excited and scared you a little bit? Maybe it’s something you’ve thought about for months or even years, but you keep it a secret because you’re worried what people might say, or that it might all end in failure?

Hayley Stoner had that dream. To start a side business in graphic design and pave the way towards leaving her job and going freelance. And also to write and produce her own music, which had long been a personal passion.

“I was struggling with my current job. I was at the point of despair and did not know which direction to go in. I felt there was no light at the end of the tunnel and I would never get out of my job.”

Back in September, Hayley signed up for coaching and together we started working on figuring out what Hayley’s values were, her unique strengths, and what fears might have been holding her back from getting started. She discovered opportunities to express her musical creativity more often, and began researching different industries that interested her.

It wasn’t always easy to keep going, and some days were harder than others. “I was at the end of my tether before some sessions, especially after a stressful day at work, but after speaking with Juliette I always came away feeling some much happier and motivated.”

As time went on we got laser focused and started to look at what her business niche could be, what services to offer, and where to find those ideal clients. With the support, clarity and accountability of working with a coach, Hayley kept believing and has managed to turn both her business dream and creative dream into a reality.

“I have become more determined to get where I want to be. I still have wobbles, but manage to pick myself up and keep going. I have one client already and hoping to build more. I can help other design companies keep on top of their workload by taking freelance projects, and start-up businesses can also benefit from my expertise in logo and branding design.”

What has been the biggest and most unexpected outcome for Hayley is how quickly her musical ambitions have become a reality too.

“My passion for music made me want to design for the music industry, which I would still love to do. However, back in January I decided to start making my own music. I have created my first track in the house/club genre and I have produced my own lyrics and worked with a professional vocalist. So I am now a freelance graphic designer and a music producer /DJ! Which is completely mad as it is not what I expected to happen, but I am extremely glad it did and can finally say I am proud of myself after years of not being valued in many different jobs.”

“I intend for my husband and I to work together making music and DJ’ing and will have our own record label. I can now combine my design passion for music, as I can create all my and my husband's track release covers, social medial advertising and the record label logo."

Hayley didn’t expect her story to turn out quite like this, but what it really shows is what’s possible when you make ROOM in your life for your dreams and passions. When you allow them some light and air, instead of keeping them hidden away in a dusty corner, they can come alive!

If you want to learn more about Hayley’s design services, you can find her at www.hayleystoner.design and connect with her on LinkedIn.

And how about you? Feeling inspired by Hayley's story? Want to explore what your personal version of success looks like, beyond your CV? It all starts with an introductory 15min career breakthrough call. Learn more about my coaching programme here.